Communicating with someone who is diagnosed with Alzheimer's
can be an emotionally challenging situation. Alzheimer’s disease and dementia
steal away stories and details that were once easily accessible and make everyday
communication difficult. These changes happen in three stages (referred to as
mild, moderate and severe Alzheimer’s disease) and take understanding, patience
and good listening skills to deal with. For those experiencing Alzheimer’s,
these changes can be scary and extremely frustrating. Effective communication
can help put those with dementia or Alzheimer’s at ease.
Mayra Ligeza, from the Alzheimer's Association, recently
presented a Brunch Series at The Scottish Home that examined “Effective Communication
Strategies.” She explained, “communication is more than just talking and
listening – it’s also about sending and receiving messages through attitude,
tone of voice, facial expressions and body language. As people with Alzheimer’s
disease and other dementias progress in their journey and the ability to use
words is lost, families need new ways to connect. Learning to decode the verbal
and behavioral messages delivered by someone with dementia or Alzheimer’s can
help you connect and communicate at each stage of the disease.”
A few effective tips for successful communication are:
Mild Alzheimer’s:
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Don’t exclude them from conversations. Talk directly to
them.
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Take time to listen to how the person is feeling and if
they need anything.
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Be patient and give them time to find the right words
and respond. Don’t interrupt or finish their sentences unless they ask for
help.
Moderate
Alzheimer’s:
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Keep eye contact. It communicates you are active
listening and that you care about what is being said.
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Speak slowly and clearly.
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Don’t overwhelm the person with complicated requests.
Offer simply, step-by-step instructions.
Severe
Alzheimer’s:
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Promote nonverbal communication, e.g. pointing and
gesturing.
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Utilize touch, sights, sounds, smells and tastes as
another way to convey experience.
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Remember - it is OK if you don’t know what to say. The
most important thing is your friendship and presence.
Looking for more tips? We highly recommend exploring the
Alzheimer’s Association's webpage. They have a host of resources and
information, including more tips on effective communication strategies: https://www.alz.org/care/dementia-communication-tips.asp
The Scottish Home regularly hosts events with expert
presenters that examine issues involving elder care; including our regular
Memory Care Brunch Series, every 2nd Friday of the month, from 9am - 11am. We
would love it if you could join us. Check our Facebook page or website for
upcoming events. Call Rebecca Drennan to RSVP: 708-447-5092.
